For Men

There are so many things that men are not taught in our culture – including how to be a man.  We typically learn this is about status or sexual prowess.  However these are ideas that create performance pressure on men and leave them lost, unsure of how to be a man, a husband, a father.

In turn, these pressures create both psychological and ultimately physical issues that get in the way of a man’s capacity for intimacy.

I support men to overcome their sex and intimacy issues, often teaching them the art of presence – our ability to be with ourselves and others and to feel both us and the other without getting lost in our minds.  Men often feel a lot of anxiety around sex, in a society where male sexuality is often about performance and this takes them into their heads and out of their bodies – and out of presence.  This can lead to several significant issues for men including:

  • Erectile Dysfunction
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Loss of Libido
  • Compulsive use of Pornography
  • Emotional avoidance
  • Ejaculatory control
  • Expanded pleasure states

I offer several means to support men to overcome these issues through a combination of talk work, education and non-intimate bodywork.

Through my training in sexology and sex coaching, tantra and Taoism, I am also able to offer guidance on advanced love-making techniques including controlling ejaculation whilst allowing orgasmic response as well as supporting you to overcome sexual problems.



"I can honestly say that our sessions have been one of the major turning points in my life. I came to you with symptoms that have tortured me for my entire adult life. Thank you for seeing through the physical and into what was really going on.