There are so many things that men are not taught in our culture – including how to be a man. We typically learn this is about status or sexual prowess. However these are ideas that create performance pressure on men and leave them lost, unsure of how to be a man, a husband, a father.
In turn, these pressures create both psychological and ultimately physical issues that get in the way of a man’s capacity for intimacy.
I support men to overcome their sex and intimacy issues, often teaching them the art of presence – our ability to be with ourselves and others and to feel both us and the other without getting lost in our minds. Men often feel a lot of anxiety around sex, in a society where male sexuality is often about performance and this takes them into their heads and out of their bodies – and out of presence. This can lead to several significant issues for men including:
- Erectile Dysfunction
- Premature Ejaculation
- Loss of Libido
- Compulsive use of Pornography
- Emotional avoidance
- Ejaculatory control
- Expanded pleasure states
I offer several means to support men to overcome these issues through a combination of talk work, education and non-intimate bodywork.
Through my training in sexology and sex coaching, tantra and Taoism, I am also able to offer guidance on advanced love-making techniques including controlling ejaculation whilst allowing orgasmic response as well as supporting you to overcome sexual problems.