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Pussy Power

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Since my appearance on Chanel 5’s Make or Break, “pussy power” has been the buzzword. Combined with the message that “a woman’s power is not up here, but down in her vagina”, it’s left a lot of people amused, some provoked and others just plainly curious. What is it? How…

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Own Your Balls

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How are you ever going to feel good about yourself if your girlfriend (or your mum) has got your balls in a jar?? Many men of all ages I speak to feel in some ways disempowered in their lives. They don’t know what they want and they can’t seem to…

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Slow Down, You Move Too Fast

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Our whole culture tells us that we should do more, do it faster, do it now – not just in sex but also in everything we do. All these messages may lead us to feel that we should speed up and that packing in more experiences, more work, more play…

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The Argument

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My beloved and I had an argument this morning. That’s not especially noteworthy in itself. We argue sometimes just like any other couple, no matter how well attuned we are with one another. The content of the argument isn’t even important. What does feel interesting however is the way we…

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Psychosexual Somatics (PST) Practitioner Training Obtains University Accreditation and Student Loan Approval

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Psychosexual Somatics (PST) Practitioner Training obtains university accreditation and student loan approval In further steps to make this work more accessible, the PST Practitioner Training has recently been approved for a Post-Graduate Certificate in Psychosexual Somatics Therapy by Middlesex University. Students successfully completing the one year PST training course may now be awarded…

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Birthing Trauma

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As I continue to work with female clients, I have noticed how many have been effected by some form of birthing trauma. I’m beginning to realise that this is a significant and often unspoken issue in our society. Statistics show that 25% of women will miscarriage at some time in…

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The Nature of Desire

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In helping us understand our sexual selves we need to understand the nature of desire. The basis of all desire is that most fundamental impulse to seek connection. I see this as a two-stage process and I could include in this not only desire for sex but also any type…

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