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Real Sex - Why Everything You Learned About Sex is Wrong

Is everything we learned about sex wrong? Read the new book from the Masters and Johnson of the 21st century and find out. Mazanti and Lousada are transforming society’s relationship with sex and intimacy as we speak – and they have a new book out!

Real Sex will reveal how almost everything that society has told us about sex is wrong. It is a practical guide that sets out seven keys to teach you how to transform guilt, fear and shame into love, pleasure and intimacy. It shows how transforming your sexuality transforms your whole life.

Real Sex is a journey into the heart of your sexual self, a way of creating meaningful and fulfilling intimacy.

Written by internationally renowned psychotherapists, Mike Lousada and Louise Mazanti, Real Sex challenges our understanding of what sex is and offers a revolutionary new approach to intimacy.

The more modern culture shines its light on sex, the longer the shadow it casts. This shadow is commercialism, pornography and shame. This attitude to sexuality creates performance pressure, increasing numbers of sexual ‘dysfunctions’ and a fundamental disconnection from ourselves and others. Mike and Louise offer a revolutionary perspective on sexuality, having transformed the lives of clients from over 60 countries, including Oscar-winning celebrities and multinational business directors.

The book is 230 pages, with 25 different exercises.

Published by Hay House, May 30, 2017.

If you already own the book, you can listen to the audio files of all the exercises.



"Mike and Louise have prompted me to look at sex in a whole new way, that I'd genuinely class as revolutionary, and profound. And their work goes way beyond just what goes down between the sheets. Its impact resonates positively through so many areas of my life; it's as though they bashed the 'Gong of Wrong' in my head, and the reverberations have been echoing through my psyche ever since, highlighting the previously broken ways I was viewing myself, my relationships and my intimate interactions, and evolving them into more constructive, illuminated ways of thinking. This is a book that won't only improve what happens in your bed, but also what happens in your head."

Alix Fox - sex educator, journalist & broadcaster