What interests me is deep transformation – it’s a space beyond ‘therapy’ as most people understand it. Most people have a deep yearning for effective interventions that can touch them deeply and help bring awareness to what needs to shift.
The healing power of touch, within a safe, boundaried container, can offer an opportunity for radical shifts in our body and psyche, and can touch the soul. This is what makes me feel alive – to support others in rapid, life-changing growth through conscious presence and touch.

Mike Lousada

Mike has been one of the world’s leading pioneers the field of somatic sexology for the past decade. His unique approach to working with sex and intimacy issues has brought him worldwide renown and media coverage, most notably with world’s leading feminist Naomi Wolf, in her book Vagina, A New Cultural History.

His work is constantly evolving to reflect new understandings from neuroscience as well as deeper spiritual wisdom. Increasingly his work focuses on awakening consciousness through relational intimacy.

Using the lens of personal issues with sexuality and intimacy, Mike supports clients from all over the world to get in touch with themselves at a deeper level to understand who they truly are.

Mike has seen clients from over 60 countries, from all walks of life, including Oscar-winning celebrities and international business leaders.

He is based in  Central London and offers sessions there and in California.  He also travels worldwide, teaching and learning. He is married to his partner, Louise Mazanti, with whom he works and teaches.

Together they style themselves as Love Revolutionaries, on a mission to empower people to express themselves more authentically and to embody their fullest potential.

Mike’s Approach

Mike’s work arises out of his experience and training. The premise is very simple: to be yourself fully, you need to know yourself fully. Our blocks arise because memory, emotion and trauma are stored in the body and need to be gently released and integrated before we can begin to allow more positive experiences of our self and our body.

We all long for deeper intimacy and are all holding ourselves back from allowing this. Mike can support you to get to know and feel yourself more deeply through his loving presence and professional skills. When you begin to feel yourself at this deeper level, blocks to intimacy dissolve and you can begin to access your greater potential in life.

Working with Mike will often support you in the following areas:

Intra-personal – enhanced sense of self, self-confidence, libido, body confidence, creativity, personal empowerment, connection with your body. Resolving sexual, physical or emotional abuse issues

Inter-personal – ability to allow intimacy, to have nourishing relationships, greater communication skills

Social – clearer boundaries, increased productivity in the workplace, loss of shame around sexual identity and appropriate sexual self-expression

Physiological – resolving: pelvic pain, early ejaculation issues, erectile problems, post-partum or post-operative trauma. Decreased PTSD or trauma-related symptoms. Allowing enhanced pleasure, sexual satisfaction and orgasmic ability

Spiritual – a deeper connection with who you truly are, helping you get in in touch with your potential and your true purpose in life

"Mike Lousada is the world’s nicest former investment banker turned male sexual healer. His mission is, as he describes it, the sexual healing of women."

Naomi Wolf in her best-seller "Vagina"